This past week, a real estate agent opined in her blog that when agents make a practice of asking a buyer for a pre-approval, or even request that they sign a buyer agency agreement to show a commitment on their part, that this is a sign of "disrespect" to the consumer.
She further went on to say that she herself has used the services of real estate agents in the past and if any of them had asked upfront for evidence of her financial qualifications or willingness to make a commitment, she'd have found someone else who showed her the respect she believed she deserved as a consumer. I read her post and was frankly, speechless. And when I found at least two dozen comments from other agents on her blog exclaiming what a great post she made and how they agreed with her a hundred percent, I was even more so.
Sheesh! Is there any profession other than real estate that considers it "disrespectful" to ask that their time and expertise be valued? Is it so outlandish to have the expectation that if you do your job well and help the client to achieve their goals that you have the right (horror of horrors) to get paid? And why pray tell, in an industry that traditionally asks for no upfront fees and where one is required to pay all expenses such as (hmm, I don't know, maybe GAS!) out of pocket, it is somehow "disrespectful" to actually ask for some kind of a commitment to work exclusively so that when the consumer actually finds their home, that you can get paid for your efforts?!?!